My name is Ira and I am 21 years old. I was born in the Ukraine. When I was just a year and a half old, I was taken away from my family, who were all alcoholics. I was placed in an orphanage for babies and later, when I turned two years old, was put into another orphanage for older kids. I lived there for ten years.
When I was ten years old, these people we never saw before started visiting our orphanages. ‘Papa Fletcher’ (as he was known to us) and his friends came and brought us all these things we never had before – food, clothes and medicine. They made it possible for us to have heat and other comforts that most people had.
Pastor Brothers and other staff and supporters from
Freedom Village USA visited our orphanage several times over the next two years. We celebrated Christmas together each year, and each of us received our own box of gifts – clothes and toys like we had never seen before. It was a big blessing for all of us.
After a couple of visits, one of the families began to talk to me and seemed to take a special liking to me. A couple weeks later, my director came to me and asked me if I wanted to be adopted by an American family. Of course I said, “Yes!” I wanted to have a family that loved me and were not alcoholics. A couple of months later, my new family came from Freedom Village USA and took me home with them.
For a while, everything was fine between my family and me. I had some struggles adjusting and learning a new language, but it was very exciting to be in America. Five or six months later, my mom and I started to not get along. That’s when everything started going in the wrong direction. I started to rebel against my family and tried to get everything to go my way, but that never worked for me. My family knew what I was trying to do and I knew they were only doing what was best for me. Things slowly started getting worse. My dad came to me explained to me that I would have to straighten up and that if I didn’t turn my attitude around, I would have to move out by the time I was eighteen. I had two months left.
For a few weeks I just didn’t care. Then one night, I was just lying on my bed. I said to myself “Wow, I really don’t have any hope left in me.” I had been given this incredible opportunity, but now I was screwing everything up. I didn’t know what to do with all of the hurt that I had been holding inside. So when the time came to move out, I made the best decision I could – I decided to go into the program at Freedom Village USA.
I struggled for a long time after entering the program. I could make it look like things were going well, but on the inside, nothing was changing.
Finally, God broke through everything that was going on in my heart. He showed me His love - that He chose me - and helped me understand how much my family loved me, in choosing me to be a part of their family. He healed the wounds of my past and helped me put my life back together.
All of a sudden, things changed. I started moving up in levels. Soon, I was given the opportunity to be part of a singing group. I started traveling and singing, sharing my story with others.
This past June, I finally graduated from high school. I was given the level of Junior Staff, and I am able to work at Freedom Village USA and help give back to the program that helped me so much.
I can’t say ‘Thank you’ enough to the people who support Freedom Village USA and to those who came to the Ukraine and supported orphans like me. Most importantly, I thank Jesus Christ, for it is through his grace and love that I was able to forgive and let go of all the hurt inside.
- Former Freedom Village USA student